It comes a point on a first date, where the guy would ask me "So, what are you looking for?"
After much thought I think it boils down to three points:
1. Someone to have fun with and travel around the world with
2. Someone to make me be a better person
3. Someone good in bed
Many of the superficial qualities are buried in one of the points above.
Point 1, in order to have fun and be able to travel the world the man must be financially independent
Point 2, he probably need to be smart and motivated in order to motivate me to be a better person. I want someone who can challenge me and put me in my place (in and out of bed)
and finally Point 3, in order to be good in bed, he should probably be hot, cuz I don't open my {()} for just any schmuck.
I always thought this is a tricky question. I don't want to blatantly insult a guy, but I also want to tell the truth. So, my mind goes racing thinking about something appropriate to say. It's not like I can say, I am looking for someone with hair to a bald guy, or say I am looking for a tall man to a short guy.
Instead what came out of my mouth was... I am looking for someone with the same core values as me, honestly at this age, the choices are limited and everything else is superficial.
I partially believed in what I said cuz where the hell can I find 6ft tall, handsome, accomplished, rich, big dick, great in the sack, STRAIGHT male these days? When I was teenager, my requirements were so simple, I just wanted someone who was hot and smart. Actually he probably doesn't need to be that smart either. I didn't think of requirements such as hair. As I grew older, I didn't realize how important hair is! Not many people can pull off the non-haired look. This is why there are hair club for men (which doesn't seem very hip or cool). Now I am in my late 20s, I am thinking about requirements such as income, family values, sense of humor, education... etc.
After much thought I think it boils down to three points:
1. Someone to have fun with and travel around the world with
2. Someone to make me be a better person
3. Someone good in bed
Many of the superficial qualities are buried in one of the points above.
Point 1, in order to have fun and be able to travel the world the man must be financially independent
Point 2, he probably need to be smart and motivated in order to motivate me to be a better person. I want someone who can challenge me and put me in my place (in and out of bed)
and finally Point 3, in order to be good in bed, he should probably be hot, cuz I don't open my {()} for just any schmuck.
Pretty sure in 10 years, my requirements will revert back to my teenage desires of just finding a hot man (just with hair this time).
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